With broken hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Tonguç Omer Gulder on Sunday, January 12, 2020, at the age of 38. He was Tonguç to his family and Omer (nickname “O-G”) to his friends. He is survived by his mother Semra Gokirmak (Marcel), and his father Omer Lutfi Gulder (Caroline), his stepbrother Stefan (Emily) and stepsister Lauren (Johan). He will be lovingly remembered by his aunt Harika, cousin Taygun and many extended family members in Turkey. He will be greatly missed by his many, many, many friends. Tonguç Omer was also known and loved by many others throughout his short life. He helped countless people with his beautiful big heart and endless efforts to make their lives better. This was true on the soccer field and in his social work; helping youth on the streets and helping families in need.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate the life of Tonguç Omer in the Sacred Space of Beechwood Funeral Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Sunday, January 19, 2020, at 1pm, a reception will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tonguç Omer can be made to www.kidsportottawa.ca .
Digital Guestbook
Vicki
Tom Fletcher
I knew Omer / Semra / Marcel since their apartment is in the same building as both my Late Parents and my Sister. When I lived in Vancouver in '74 I had a Hindu lady-friend (from Fiji Islands) and she said: "Do you realize that you could change someone else's life just by smiling at them?" That was Omer: always greet me with a friendly smile and talk about soccer and his love of The Binghamton Senators. Saw him emerging from the World Exchange Plaza LCBO (with a brown paper bag in hand) and lecture him about the perils of "The Demon Alcohol." Tell him that I was a Surrogate Dad and to keep himself in line! "Straighten-Up-And-Fly-Right!" And he did. I hope that he made his Natural Parents proud of him. Very sad for your loss.
Wolf
A huge, warm heart and a sharp intellect. Love and light to you my friend.
Salim Hanna
Omer was an angel who cared for the community especially the youth and the poor. He gave hope and inspired many to live a better life. Omer helped our relatives who came to Canada as refugees from Syria to integrate into the Canadian society and feel welcomed. We feel privileged to have known Omer.
My family and l are shocked and saddened by the loss of Omer. He left unexpectedly, but his warm beautiful memories will live with us and all those who have known him.
May his beautiful memories ease the pain and be a blessing to his family and friends. We will keep Omer in our thoughts and prayers
Salim Hanna and Family
Sabrina Little
Omer, I cant believe I'm writing this today.
You were an angel in disguise for us homeless youth at YSB.
You were patient and kind, loving and understanding.
You went above and beyond for us all.
You believed in us when no one else did.
You saved many of us from suicide, and homelessness.
You listened when no one else did.
Thank you for everything you have done for us and for me.
You helped me leave an abusive relationship, you helped me find housing, and you helped me through the loss of my daughters.
May you rest in peace my dear.
I and many of us from YSB will truly miss you.
Josh
Omer has changed so many lives including mine. He's always been there to talk when you needed it and always there to point you in the right direction. Will miss you man R.I.P
Vicki
I've known Omer for a short period of time but he definitely has had a positive impact on our office and the lives he touched. "Where ever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories." You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May you rest in peace Omer.
Lynne, Kenner and André M.
Our sincere condolences to Omer's family. He was a kind soul who made a difference in many lives.
Omer, there are just no words. You will be missed amigo. We made a cachaça promise that we would travel to Brasil one day to see a game together. We are heartbroken that it never happened. Sending our love - abraços.
Lynn Spraggs
Omer was like a ray of sunshine. He created smiles wherever he went. Prayers to your family. You will be missed
Hunter
Thank you so much for being you, Omer. You were a gift to humanity. A light brighter than happiness itself.
You will be truly missed by many!
Condolences to his friends and family.
Beautiful service for a beautiful soul.
Rest in paradise "Turkish Delight" ❤
I've known Omer for a short period of time but he definitely has had a positive impact on our office and the lives he touched. "Where ever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories." You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May you rest in peace Omer.