With broken hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Tonguç Omer Gulder on Sunday, January 12, 2020, at the age of 38. He was Tonguç to his family and Omer (nickname “O-G”) to his friends. He is survived by his mother Semra Gokirmak (Marcel), and his father Omer Lutfi Gulder (Caroline), his stepbrother Stefan (Emily) and stepsister Lauren (Johan). He will be lovingly remembered by his aunt Harika, cousin Taygun and many extended family members in Turkey. He will be greatly missed by his many, many, many friends. Tonguç Omer was also known and loved by many others throughout his short life. He helped countless people with his beautiful big heart and endless efforts to make their lives better. This was true on the soccer field and in his social work; helping youth on the streets and helping families in need.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate the life of Tonguç Omer in the Sacred Space of Beechwood Funeral Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Sunday, January 19, 2020, at 1pm, a reception will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tonguç Omer can be made to www.kidsportottawa.ca .
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Chantal Layoun
Merle Padilla
Omer will be remembered for his humour and humanity. He made a difference in many lives that he touched. He will be forever young in our minds and in out hearts. My deepest sympathy to his parents and family.
Zufishan Malik
Omer, you will be dearly missed. I had the opportunity to work with you at the City of Ottawa briefly. I will never forget how hilarious you were and had a smile on your face everyday. You cared about serving clients and were always available to pitch in. Last year I saw you at many city events and looked forward to facilitating workshops with you for Youth Futures this year. May your soul rest in peace and I would like to extend my sympathies to your family and friends.
Kurt Alexeenko
I can only imagine how many people were impacted by the life and loss of this great man. He radiated positivity and worked very hard to get others the help that they needed. I'm proud to have been able to work alongside him, even if for only a short time.
You will be missed by many. Rest in peace, friend.
Kiesha
I don't even know where to begin ????or how to explain . But you were a positive person . You were amazing to talk to always was there when I needed help ,or just someone to talk to . You've supported me thru all my bad habits . And you motivated me to do better for myself . You helped my mom with my daughter . You where such an amazing person . I can't believe your gone I saw you like 2 months ago we had such a nice convo then you drove off . Well just so you know Omer everything you've told me paid of I'm sober I'm living and amazing life with my kids. Thank you for always being there for me ,pushing me to do good. RIP . I hope to see you eventually . ????????????
Lana Leblanc
His hugs, he always wanted hugs and I would always wanted to hug him back every time. He was such a special human being. I never saw him in a bad mood, always smiling. Rest in peace Omer. My condolences to his family.
Jessica K-M
Dear Semra,
I remember gazing at “homer” from a distance and wondering who is that guy? He just had this spark that drove me to meet him. I remember the day I knew I’d love him or the day I knew he loved me. Even though that time and our childhood memories have faded, in my heart he will always hold a place.
He was one amazing human. His involvement with and love for children/youth and of course soccer was a testament to his character and willingness to help others.
Everyone writing messages will likely agree that Omer impacted our cores. He forever changed the lenses through which we saw our lives.
My sincerest condolences.
May he Rest In Peace .... until we meet again...
Guillaume Wildgust
OG and I met in high school, and although we would sometimes go years without seeing each other, whenever we did get together it was so easy to catch up. Omer, I miss you man! I'll always have great memories! One Love!
Maryfrances
I was so sorry to hear about Omer's passing. I did not know him well, but I was so grateful to have had him as a shift partner on my first day with the City. He did a great job of explaining what was expected, led by example, and made sure I felt welcome. His kindness will not be forgotten.
Maureen Fahey
Goodbyes hurt the most, when the story is unfinished...! RIP, Omer!
Omar was funny and welcoming, he had a huge heart and helped so many people.
Our sincere condolences and send hugs to the family. OMAR YOUR SMILE WAS THE BEST!