June 23, 1939 – Mar 22, 2021
With immense sorrow we announce the death of our beloved Ted, husband, father and grandfather, at the age of 81, victim of a tragic accident sustained while out running the evening of January 12/21. He survived 10 weeks in hospital but succumbed to multiple traumatic injuries and other underlying causes.
Ted’s journey began (born Sansei, 3rd generation Japanese Canadian) in Ucluelet, B.C., son of Takeo Itani (commercial fisherman), and Sumako Oye. After the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Ted’s family was forcibly removed from their home, taking only the possessions they could carry. They were confined in primitive stables in Hastings Park, Vancouver, until months later when they were moved and incarcerated in a camp in East Lillooet on the Fraser River, 1942. Having lost their civil rights – though all were Canadian citizens – they remained in B.C.’s interior until after the end of the war. By then, their confiscated possessions had been sold off.
Ted’s later childhood was spent in Westbank, BC. As a young man, he began a 37-year career with the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF). He served with NATO in Europe on 3 separate assignments and held command, staff and instructional posts in Canada and abroad. He graduated from the Canadian Army Staff College, NATO Defense College in Rome, International Institute of Humanitarian Law, San Remo, Italy. He pursued language studies in French, Russian, Japanese, Arabic, Spanish, Italian, and German. Recently, he attended the Roméo Dallaire Child Soldiers Initiative at Dalhousie. Ted served as Commanding Officer of the 1st Airborne Battery, Royal Canadian Artillery, of the Canadian Airborne Regiment (Edmonton 1972-74). UN missions included long periods in the Horn of Africa, Pakistan, Iran/Iraq, the former Yugoslavia. He held various jobs as Faculty Member, Peacekeeper and UN Monitor. He was awarded the Order of Military Merit in 1991, and in 2015 was appointed to the Order of Canada.
Ted made an early decision to commit himself to justice, peace and gender equality. He overcame adversity and prejudice, and with wisdom and humour, worked selflessly to help others. He had enormous inner strength, and no fear of making tough decisions. After retirement from the CAF (1994), he began a 26-year career in humanitarian aid work with the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), the International Federation of Red Cross Red Crescent Societies, and Canadian Red Cross (CRC). For 17 years, he took on various roles with the Pearson Peacekeeping Centre, helping to design and deliver training courses conducted around the world. In 1995 he supported efforts to negotiate a mine-ban convention, which came to fruition in the 1997 Ottawa Treaty. He worked for the ICRC until 2004, including a 2 ½-year mission in Central Asia, based in Tashkent, his territory covering Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgystan and Turkmenistan. In Geneva, he worked on the Missing People Project, and as advisor on International Humanitarian Law and diplomacy. With the Canadian Red Cross, he led responses to natural disasters including Sri Lanka and Indonesia following the 2004 tsunami; 2005-06 earthquake relief in Pakistan; Operations Coordinator with Pakistan Red Crescent Society in Baluchistan (2008 earthquake); and Pakistan during the 2010 floods. He worked for the US State Department Global Peace Operations Initiative as Subject Matter Expert and threw his energy into his work, whether it was classroom or field. He left his mark in many places, including Haiti, Bangladesh, Nepal, the Philippines, Indonesia, Mongolia. In his last years he was a committed Red Cross mentor and Volunteer. To quote a colleague: “He was dignified, respectful of people and honourable.”
Ted and Frances eloped in Montreal in 1967 and moved about Canada and the world together, including 3 years in Heidelberg, Germany, while working and raising Russell and Sam. Ted is deeply mourned by his loving wife of 53 years, Frances Susan Itani in Ottawa ON. He was a steady and gentle guiding presence for his children and grandchildren: son, Russell James Satoshi Itani (Aileen), and granddaughter Frances Michiko Itani, Copenhagen, DK; and daughter, Samantha Leiko Itani (Paul), and granddaughters Campbell Itani Smith and Tate Itani Smith, Lindsay, ON. Ted is survived by sister, Nancy Teruko Minato (Dick), and brother, Bing Tsuyoshi Itani (predeceased by Carol). Siblings who predeceased him: Tom Taketoshi Itani (Beryl), Linda Teruyo Terai (Isao), Anne Terumi Murata (Kazuya), and Violet Toyoko Itani. Ted is loved and respected by cousins, nieces and nephews, and mourned by colleagues and friends around the world. He was a lifetime runner and completed many marathons, including the original route in Greece, and the Boston Marathon. He will be missed by his running partners, and by his fishing buddies in PEI.
Ted’s wishes were to be cremated. When it is safe to do so, a Memorial Gathering will be held for Family, Friends and Colleagues at Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, ON. Please visit www.beechwoodottawa.ca for further details to be announced.
In lieu of flowers, a donation could be made in Ted’s name to the Canadian Red Cross, International Disaster Relief Fund (redcross.ca/donate; or by calling 1-800-418-1111; or by cheque indicating ‘IDRF’ to National Processing Centre, P.O. Box 39, Saint John, NB. E2L 3X3.
Livre de visiteurs
Ann and David Sunahara
Stuart Beare
Ted was a Regimental uncle to me and my brother Murray - and a brother to our father Archie - gunners all. It was always a joy to run into him over the years - and to witness directly his love of life and people - in uniform and in the service of peace and human security with the Red Cross. Deepest condolences and prayers for him - and for you Frances and your dear family. He was and will always be remembered as such a great man - one we so admired - and one we know was so loved by you all.
Sachiko Okuda and family
Our sincere condolences to Frances and family on the passing of Ted, a true humanitarian.
Don and Alice McLaughlin
Ted was one of my DS at CF Staff School in 1974 and again as the Senior Instructor on the IG Course in 1977. He was a role model and an example as a soldier and citizen for all of us to emulate. Alice presented him a Round Tuit as a reminder to not procrastinate, which he never did. I believe he carried the Round Tuit for many years in his wallet.
Our sincere condolences to Francis and family. Ted left us far too soon; we are all the poorer for his loss. Stand Easy Ted you have earned it.
Hossam K Elsharkawi
Rain or sun, you were always there Ted! Steady, wise and forever dignified. We salute you and know that you are still running in other universes. Thank you for you caring, service, training a new generation, and the amazing Red Cross years.
Thank you, Ted, for offer…
Thank you, Ted, for offer guidance and wisdom to a complete stranger. Only later did I realize the profound impact you've had on the world. He helped me, a complete stranger, with valuable career advice when he didn't have to, and I will remember him fondly for it. Rest In Peace.
Heartfelt condolences.
Dave Walters
Norman and Marion Takeuchi
During the eleven short years that we knew Ted, we got to know a man with a gentle smile who was warm, generous and funny. We have been on the receiving end of his spontaneous, thoughtful gestures. Although soft spoken, we have heard him speak with eloquence and authority. Only now are we learning about the extent of his astonishing career and accomplishments. He was truly an extraordinary man and we feel honoured to have spent time with him. He will be missed by many.
To Frances and your entire family, we send our love and deepest condolences.
David Flowers
Dear Sam,
David and Peggy send to you and your family, our sincere condolences. What a wonderful man. He truly was an inspiration for all who were honored to know him. His light and legacy will live on in memories and he will always be with you in your heart.... forever.
Bob Chamberlain
Frances: My sincere condolences to you and your family. I first met Ted at Shilo MB in 1960 as RCA Officer Cadets. We became life long friends. We served together two times in Shilo and once in Germany. He was a superb military leader and recognized international leader within the IRC. I feel that I have lost a brother. RIP Ted.
We met Ted only a few times but our immediate reaction to him was that he was a lovely person: generous, humorous, helpful, intelligent and kind. Would there were more of him in the world! Our sincere condolences to Frances and family.