June 23, 1939 – Mar 22, 2021
With immense sorrow we announce the death of our beloved Ted, husband, father and grandfather, at the age of 81, victim of a tragic accident sustained while out running the evening of January 12/21. He survived 10 weeks in hospital but succumbed to multiple traumatic injuries and other underlying causes.
Ted’s journey began (born Sansei, 3rd generation Japanese Canadian) in Ucluelet, B.C., son of Takeo Itani (commercial fisherman), and Sumako Oye. After the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Ted’s family was forcibly removed from their home, taking only the possessions they could carry. They were confined in primitive stables in Hastings Park, Vancouver, until months later when they were moved and incarcerated in a camp in East Lillooet on the Fraser River, 1942. Having lost their civil rights – though all were Canadian citizens – they remained in B.C.’s interior until after the end of the war. By then, their confiscated possessions had been sold off.
Ted’s later childhood was spent in Westbank, BC. As a young man, he began a 37-year career with the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF). He served with NATO in Europe on 3 separate assignments and held command, staff and instructional posts in Canada and abroad. He graduated from the Canadian Army Staff College, NATO Defense College in Rome, International Institute of Humanitarian Law, San Remo, Italy. He pursued language studies in French, Russian, Japanese, Arabic, Spanish, Italian, and German. Recently, he attended the Roméo Dallaire Child Soldiers Initiative at Dalhousie. Ted served as Commanding Officer of the 1st Airborne Battery, Royal Canadian Artillery, of the Canadian Airborne Regiment (Edmonton 1972-74). UN missions included long periods in the Horn of Africa, Pakistan, Iran/Iraq, the former Yugoslavia. He held various jobs as Faculty Member, Peacekeeper and UN Monitor. He was awarded the Order of Military Merit in 1991, and in 2015 was appointed to the Order of Canada.
Ted made an early decision to commit himself to justice, peace and gender equality. He overcame adversity and prejudice, and with wisdom and humour, worked selflessly to help others. He had enormous inner strength, and no fear of making tough decisions. After retirement from the CAF (1994), he began a 26-year career in humanitarian aid work with the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), the International Federation of Red Cross Red Crescent Societies, and Canadian Red Cross (CRC). For 17 years, he took on various roles with the Pearson Peacekeeping Centre, helping to design and deliver training courses conducted around the world. In 1995 he supported efforts to negotiate a mine-ban convention, which came to fruition in the 1997 Ottawa Treaty. He worked for the ICRC until 2004, including a 2 ½-year mission in Central Asia, based in Tashkent, his territory covering Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgystan and Turkmenistan. In Geneva, he worked on the Missing People Project, and as advisor on International Humanitarian Law and diplomacy. With the Canadian Red Cross, he led responses to natural disasters including Sri Lanka and Indonesia following the 2004 tsunami; 2005-06 earthquake relief in Pakistan; Operations Coordinator with Pakistan Red Crescent Society in Baluchistan (2008 earthquake); and Pakistan during the 2010 floods. He worked for the US State Department Global Peace Operations Initiative as Subject Matter Expert and threw his energy into his work, whether it was classroom or field. He left his mark in many places, including Haiti, Bangladesh, Nepal, the Philippines, Indonesia, Mongolia. In his last years he was a committed Red Cross mentor and Volunteer. To quote a colleague: “He was dignified, respectful of people and honourable.”
Ted and Frances eloped in Montreal in 1967 and moved about Canada and the world together, including 3 years in Heidelberg, Germany, while working and raising Russell and Sam. Ted is deeply mourned by his loving wife of 53 years, Frances Susan Itani in Ottawa ON. He was a steady and gentle guiding presence for his children and grandchildren: son, Russell James Satoshi Itani (Aileen), and granddaughter Frances Michiko Itani, Copenhagen, DK; and daughter, Samantha Leiko Itani (Paul), and granddaughters Campbell Itani Smith and Tate Itani Smith, Lindsay, ON. Ted is survived by sister, Nancy Teruko Minato (Dick), and brother, Bing Tsuyoshi Itani (predeceased by Carol). Siblings who predeceased him: Tom Taketoshi Itani (Beryl), Linda Teruyo Terai (Isao), Anne Terumi Murata (Kazuya), and Violet Toyoko Itani. Ted is loved and respected by cousins, nieces and nephews, and mourned by colleagues and friends around the world. He was a lifetime runner and completed many marathons, including the original route in Greece, and the Boston Marathon. He will be missed by his running partners, and by his fishing buddies in PEI.
Ted’s wishes were to be cremated. When it is safe to do so, a Memorial Gathering will be held for Family, Friends and Colleagues at Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, ON. Please visit www.beechwoodottawa.ca for further details to be announced.
In lieu of flowers, a donation could be made in Ted’s name to the Canadian Red Cross, International Disaster Relief Fund (redcross.ca/donate; or by calling 1-800-418-1111; or by cheque indicating ‘IDRF’ to National Processing Centre, P.O. Box 39, Saint John, NB. E2L 3X3.
Digital Guestbook
Marilyn Clarke and John Hicks
Susan Johnson
Such shockingly sad news. I had the honour of being at the Canadian Red Cross during some of Ted's time there and will always remember his quiet, steady presence. Such depth. What a lovely soul. My heartfelt condolences to Frances and family.
Ella West
Ted led us all with dignity and such grace. He had a way of sharing his heart and passion. I will be forever grateful for his kindness and compassion. We have all been blessed.
Carol Lee
Even though Ted is no longer with us, his inspiration always will be. He had such a calm, wise presence, but also a twinkle in his eye and a dry sense of humour. How he will be missed! My heartfelt condolences to his family.
Parvaneh Manavi
The unexpected passing of, Ted Italy, a personality larger than life, the Husband of Frances , great friend & neighbours was a great shock.
He will be greatly missed not only by his family and friends, but people’s of Canada and
Others country’s he served ,helped, so selflessly..
He will be missed.
Parvaneh.
Norine Naguib
What beautiful photos. My sincere condolences Frances and family. Our Red Cross family will not be the same without Ted but we are most certainly better for the time he spent with us.
Andrea Peters
I had the pleasure of working alongside Ted in our office pod at the Canadian Red Cross, where he would tell stories from his life and vast experience as a humanitarian, and give advice and mentorship to all of his colleagues. Ted will be remembered as kind, thoughtful, and deeply respected by all who crossed paths with him. My sincere condolences to his entire family.
Col (Retd) Nigel Van Loan
May I offer my most sincere condolences to Frances and to Ted's family on this very sad and tragic occasion. It seems not that long ago that Pat and I had the honour and notable pleasure of dining with Ted and Frances at the Anderson's in Manotick but I know that it was many years back (before Pat's death in 2007). From my initial meeting with Ted at Staff School in Toronto in 1966, I knew him to be an outstanding intellect and servant of Canada: His untimely death is a great loss to our society.
Angie DaRocha-Neto
Sam and to the entire family of Major Itani, my deep and heartfelt condolences at this time. Let his love, light and legacy shine through as you dedicate this time to celebrate his life. Sincerely, Angie
Michael Cessford
Some of my last memories of Ted are of him cheerfully instructing fly-fishing on the Rideau and jogging around a track (dodging ostriches) in Nairobi while providing invaluable training and education to AU and UN personnel from Darfur.. A humanitarian without peer and an extraordinarily kind soul. We are the less for this loss.
Dear Frances,
John and I are so saddened to learn of the news of your husband Ted. We were deeply moved by Ted’s beautiful obituary and to learn of the scope of his reach. His humanitarian contributions and his deeply held commitment to bettering the lives of others and to social justice is a profound legacy to which we could all aspire.
With deepest sympathy at your profound loss to you and your family Frances- Marilyn & John, Guelph ON