June 23, 1939 – Mar 22, 2021
With immense sorrow we announce the death of our beloved Ted, husband, father and grandfather, at the age of 81, victim of a tragic accident sustained while out running the evening of January 12/21. He survived 10 weeks in hospital but succumbed to multiple traumatic injuries and other underlying causes.
Ted’s journey began (born Sansei, 3rd generation Japanese Canadian) in Ucluelet, B.C., son of Takeo Itani (commercial fisherman), and Sumako Oye. After the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Ted’s family was forcibly removed from their home, taking only the possessions they could carry. They were confined in primitive stables in Hastings Park, Vancouver, until months later when they were moved and incarcerated in a camp in East Lillooet on the Fraser River, 1942. Having lost their civil rights – though all were Canadian citizens – they remained in B.C.’s interior until after the end of the war. By then, their confiscated possessions had been sold off.
Ted’s later childhood was spent in Westbank, BC. As a young man, he began a 37-year career with the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF). He served with NATO in Europe on 3 separate assignments and held command, staff and instructional posts in Canada and abroad. He graduated from the Canadian Army Staff College, NATO Defense College in Rome, International Institute of Humanitarian Law, San Remo, Italy. He pursued language studies in French, Russian, Japanese, Arabic, Spanish, Italian, and German. Recently, he attended the Roméo Dallaire Child Soldiers Initiative at Dalhousie. Ted served as Commanding Officer of the 1st Airborne Battery, Royal Canadian Artillery, of the Canadian Airborne Regiment (Edmonton 1972-74). UN missions included long periods in the Horn of Africa, Pakistan, Iran/Iraq, the former Yugoslavia. He held various jobs as Faculty Member, Peacekeeper and UN Monitor. He was awarded the Order of Military Merit in 1991, and in 2015 was appointed to the Order of Canada.
Ted made an early decision to commit himself to justice, peace and gender equality. He overcame adversity and prejudice, and with wisdom and humour, worked selflessly to help others. He had enormous inner strength, and no fear of making tough decisions. After retirement from the CAF (1994), he began a 26-year career in humanitarian aid work with the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), the International Federation of Red Cross Red Crescent Societies, and Canadian Red Cross (CRC). For 17 years, he took on various roles with the Pearson Peacekeeping Centre, helping to design and deliver training courses conducted around the world. In 1995 he supported efforts to negotiate a mine-ban convention, which came to fruition in the 1997 Ottawa Treaty. He worked for the ICRC until 2004, including a 2 ½-year mission in Central Asia, based in Tashkent, his territory covering Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgystan and Turkmenistan. In Geneva, he worked on the Missing People Project, and as advisor on International Humanitarian Law and diplomacy. With the Canadian Red Cross, he led responses to natural disasters including Sri Lanka and Indonesia following the 2004 tsunami; 2005-06 earthquake relief in Pakistan; Operations Coordinator with Pakistan Red Crescent Society in Baluchistan (2008 earthquake); and Pakistan during the 2010 floods. He worked for the US State Department Global Peace Operations Initiative as Subject Matter Expert and threw his energy into his work, whether it was classroom or field. He left his mark in many places, including Haiti, Bangladesh, Nepal, the Philippines, Indonesia, Mongolia. In his last years he was a committed Red Cross mentor and Volunteer. To quote a colleague: “He was dignified, respectful of people and honourable.”
Ted and Frances eloped in Montreal in 1967 and moved about Canada and the world together, including 3 years in Heidelberg, Germany, while working and raising Russell and Sam. Ted is deeply mourned by his loving wife of 53 years, Frances Susan Itani in Ottawa ON. He was a steady and gentle guiding presence for his children and grandchildren: son, Russell James Satoshi Itani (Aileen), and granddaughter Frances Michiko Itani, Copenhagen, DK; and daughter, Samantha Leiko Itani (Paul), and granddaughters Campbell Itani Smith and Tate Itani Smith, Lindsay, ON. Ted is survived by sister, Nancy Teruko Minato (Dick), and brother, Bing Tsuyoshi Itani (predeceased by Carol). Siblings who predeceased him: Tom Taketoshi Itani (Beryl), Linda Teruyo Terai (Isao), Anne Terumi Murata (Kazuya), and Violet Toyoko Itani. Ted is loved and respected by cousins, nieces and nephews, and mourned by colleagues and friends around the world. He was a lifetime runner and completed many marathons, including the original route in Greece, and the Boston Marathon. He will be missed by his running partners, and by his fishing buddies in PEI.
Ted’s wishes were to be cremated. When it is safe to do so, a Memorial Gathering will be held for Family, Friends and Colleagues at Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, ON. Please visit www.beechwoodottawa.ca for further details to be announced.
In lieu of flowers, a donation could be made in Ted’s name to the Canadian Red Cross, International Disaster Relief Fund (redcross.ca/donate; or by calling 1-800-418-1111; or by cheque indicating ‘IDRF’ to National Processing Centre, P.O. Box 39, Saint John, NB. E2L 3X3.
Digital Guestbook
Tim and Sharon Guiler
John and Judy Morrison
We first met Ted in 1979 in Rome when he and John attended the NATO Defence College. Even then he was an avid marathon runner and great company. We have kept in touch, not least when his visits to International Red Cross countries meant flights through London .
Ted’s easy going manner was a delight and commanded attention.
We shall miss him.
David and Sharon Johnston
We send our sincere condolences for your loss. Ted was a gentle man and gentleman. He set a high standard for the people around him.
Matt Myers
So sorry for your loss Sam. A truly remarkable man - condolences from our family to yours - Matt
Sally Armstrong
The world lost a wonderful citizen. He left his mark of goodness everywhere he went . We were lucky to have his influence and mourn this immense loss. My heartfelt sympathies to Frances and the family.
Thomas Burnie
I first met Ted in the late 1950s at Vernon Army Cadet Camp - he was the cadet services platoon commander and i was his very young militia platoon Sgt. Our paths crossed many times in various postings over the years. A man of great humour and dedication, Ted was an example to emulate - if one could! A fine Canadian who will be missed.
Tanya Frye
There are people you meet in this world who leave a lasting impression on your life. Ted was one of those people. He accomplished so many great things in his career...excelled is a better word. But it wasn't his stellar career that impressed me as much as who he was as a person. He accomplished all of those great things and remained a kind, open, down to earth individual. That is a rarity and a person I've strived to be in my life. He was a lovely man. My condolences go out to his family and friends.
We send our sympathy and…
We send our sympathy and love to Frances, Sam, Russell and families. Ted led a life that truly made a difference in the world, and he will be sorely missed. What a wonderful human he was. He left good things behind.
Orm and Barb Mitchell
David Last
Ted, always one to open doors for others, helped RMC cadets find placements at the Red Cross - one had a life-changing experience doing supply-chain management for disaster relief in Aceh and serves as a logistician. It was always a pleasure to learn from you at the Pearson Peacekeeping Centre. Frances, my deepest condolences on your loss.
Louise and Michel Trahan
Dear Frances,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. We sincerely hope you and your loved ones will experience this passage with serenity. Louise and Michel Trahan
Deepest condolences to Fran and the family. A good man taken too early.