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Submitted by masterfunerald… on Thu, 03/25/2021 - 10:16:AM

June 23, 1939 – Mar 22, 2021

With immense sorrow we announce the death of our beloved Ted, husband, father and grandfather, at the age of 81, victim of a tragic accident sustained while out running the evening of January 12/21. He survived 10 weeks in hospital but succumbed to multiple traumatic injuries and other underlying causes.

Ted’s journey began (born Sansei, 3rd generation Japanese Canadian) in Ucluelet, B.C., son of Takeo Itani (commercial fisherman), and Sumako Oye. After the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Ted’s family was forcibly removed from their home, taking only the possessions they could carry. They were confined in primitive stables in Hastings Park, Vancouver, until months later when they were moved and incarcerated in a camp in East Lillooet on the Fraser River, 1942. Having lost their civil rights – though all were Canadian citizens – they remained in B.C.’s interior until after the end of the war. By then, their confiscated possessions had been sold off.

Ted’s later childhood was spent in Westbank, BC. As a young man, he began a 37-year career with the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF). He served with NATO in Europe on 3 separate assignments and held command, staff and instructional posts in Canada and abroad. He graduated from the Canadian Army Staff College, NATO Defense College in Rome, International Institute of Humanitarian Law, San Remo, Italy. He pursued language studies in French, Russian, Japanese, Arabic, Spanish, Italian, and German. Recently, he attended the Roméo Dallaire Child Soldiers Initiative at Dalhousie. Ted served as Commanding Officer of the 1st Airborne Battery, Royal Canadian Artillery, of the Canadian Airborne Regiment (Edmonton 1972-74). UN missions included long periods in the Horn of Africa, Pakistan, Iran/Iraq, the former Yugoslavia. He held various jobs as Faculty Member, Peacekeeper and UN Monitor. He was awarded the Order of Military Merit in 1991, and in 2015 was appointed to the Order of Canada.

Ted made an early decision to commit himself to justice, peace and gender equality. He overcame adversity and prejudice, and with wisdom and humour, worked selflessly to help others. He had enormous inner strength, and no fear of making tough decisions. After retirement from the CAF (1994), he began a 26-year career in humanitarian aid work with the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), the International Federation of Red Cross Red Crescent Societies, and Canadian Red Cross (CRC). For 17 years, he took on various roles with the Pearson Peacekeeping Centre, helping to design and deliver training courses conducted around the world. In 1995 he supported efforts to negotiate a mine-ban convention, which came to fruition in the 1997 Ottawa Treaty. He worked for the ICRC until 2004, including a 2 ½-year mission in Central Asia, based in Tashkent, his territory covering Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgystan and Turkmenistan. In Geneva, he worked on the Missing People Project, and as advisor on International Humanitarian Law and diplomacy. With the Canadian Red Cross, he led responses to natural disasters including Sri Lanka and Indonesia following the 2004 tsunami; 2005-06 earthquake relief in Pakistan; Operations Coordinator with Pakistan Red Crescent Society in Baluchistan (2008 earthquake); and Pakistan during the 2010 floods. He worked for the US State Department Global Peace Operations Initiative as Subject Matter Expert and threw his energy into his work, whether it was classroom or field. He left his mark in many places, including Haiti, Bangladesh, Nepal, the Philippines, Indonesia, Mongolia. In his last years he was a committed Red Cross mentor and Volunteer. To quote a colleague: “He was dignified, respectful of people and honourable.”

Ted and Frances eloped in Montreal in 1967 and moved about Canada and the world together, including 3 years in Heidelberg, Germany, while working and raising Russell and Sam. Ted is deeply mourned by his loving wife of 53 years, Frances Susan Itani in Ottawa ON. He was a steady and gentle guiding presence for his children and grandchildren: son, Russell James Satoshi Itani (Aileen), and granddaughter Frances Michiko Itani, Copenhagen, DK; and daughter, Samantha Leiko Itani (Paul), and granddaughters Campbell Itani Smith and Tate Itani Smith, Lindsay, ON. Ted is survived by sister, Nancy Teruko Minato (Dick), and brother, Bing Tsuyoshi Itani (predeceased by Carol).  Siblings who predeceased him: Tom Taketoshi Itani (Beryl), Linda Teruyo Terai (Isao), Anne Terumi Murata (Kazuya), and Violet Toyoko Itani. Ted is loved and respected by cousins, nieces and nephews, and mourned by colleagues and friends around the world. He was a lifetime runner and completed many marathons, including the original route in Greece, and the Boston Marathon. He will be missed by his running partners, and by his fishing buddies in PEI.

Ted’s wishes were to be cremated. When it is safe to do so, a Memorial Gathering will be held for Family, Friends and Colleagues at Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, ON. Please visit www.beechwoodottawa.ca for further details to be announced.

In lieu of flowers, a donation could be made in Ted’s name to the Canadian Red Cross, International Disaster Relief Fund (redcross.ca/donate; or by calling 1-800-418-1111; or by cheque indicating ‘IDRF’ to National Processing Centre, P.O. Box 39, Saint John, NB. E2L 3X3.

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Tigist Abebe

Sam and family.. thinking of you at this difficult time. May his soul rest in peace, and all of you find strength. He seemed like a remarkable man.

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Phyllis Bruce

Ted was such a fine man who lived a life of service to others. We are all in his debt. Knowing him was a privilege. My deepest sympathies to Frances and the family.

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Paul LaRose-Edwards

Ted was a friend and professional colleague to myself and CANADEM, helping to advance UN reform, human rights, and getting young Canadians into international service. His energy and enthusiasm were inspiring and will be missed. He was always a "straight shooter", as befits a gunner, but ever gentle in doing so, a real gentleman.

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Anne Sewell

Frances and Family, We can't begin to imagine what you are/have been going through. Please know that we are thinking of you. Ted certainly was an incredible human being...

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Mike Calnan

The Gunner world has been greatly diminished with Ted's passing. His impact on peacekeeping, international law and humanitarian work was immense. He was a proud Canadian whose childhood was stolen by his own country yet he rose above it and served his nation as a soldier, peacekeeper, educator, humanitarian and ambassador. Good shooting, Ted. End of Mission. Rest.

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Terry Murphy

I only meet Ted once and that was in Sea View, PEI, where he would go fishing with my buddy Don Adams. We both served many years in the Army, he in Arty and I in Sigs. I have heard of his reputation as a tremendous Officer. Ted your work is done and may you Rest In Peace. Thank You for being there.

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Ken Stowell

I served with Ted in 3RCHA in Winnipeg in 1966 and remember him as an Officer one could look up to and always count on. We have lost a great man, a fellow Gunner and a friend. Reading his Obituary, I am humbled by his service and accomplishments. In his honour, I will be adding the Red Cross to my Donor list.

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timothy pitt

I can only imagine that there is some sort of trouble in heaven and God needs a kind, reliable, patient, authentic, generous and wise Gentleman to help as a genuine peacekeeper. Still, for the rest of us, it’s too soon. My deepest condolences to Frances and all the family.

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John Fox

A most wonderful man. We served together on a couple of postings. I was a slow jogger while Ted was a runner - so I saw more of him in the locker room than on the road. He was a natural at mentoring and always had the time to talk. There was an incident in Bosnia when he exposed himself to great personal danger to help Bojana and I. An unforgettable man - always inspiring! Heartfelt condolences to Francis and his family.

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Donna and John Roberts

Dear Frances and family,
Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief.
The whole world has lost a great humanitarian.

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