Anna Marguerite McElroy (Connor)

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Much loved daughter, sister, wife, and mother.

The family of Anna Marguerite McElroy sadly announce her passing on December 24, 2020. She was born to the late Julia Margaret (Morton) Connor and Ambrose Sylvester Connor in Kingston, Nova Scotia on October 30, 1924.

Predeceased by her husband John Moray McElroy, her sister Edith Chute, brother Paul Connor, and brother Blake Connor, sister-in law Margaret Mable McElroy, brother-in-law James McElroy (late Lorna), sister-in-law Mary Evelyn McElroy, and sister-in-law Catherine Mulligan (Jim).

Survived by her son Andrew and daughter Patricia, both of Ottawa, brother-in law Earl Chute (late Edith) of Middleton, Nova Scotia, sister-in-law, Ann Connor (late Paul) of Halifax, Nova Scotia, sister-in-law Ann Taylor (late John) of Whitecourt Alberta, sister-in-law, Brenda McNulty (late Rod) Renfrew, Ontario. Also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Mom was always optimistic, grateful and young at heart. Many will remember her for her great laugh and there was always lots of laughter. She was a lover of poetry, Shakespeare, and the daily newspaper. She memorized poetry by heart and could often be heard reciting favourite poems. She would read newspapers end to end and tell us everything she found interesting and that was just about everything. Well into her 90’s, she spend countless hours working in the garden, raking leaves, trimming trees, and weeding until there was not one leaf, branch out of place, or weed to be found. Our two Westies, Trella and Wrenley will miss her letting them in and out at every whim. She loved cooking shows and liked to try different recipes. She enjoyed preparing for and teaching cooking classes, and taught Sunday school for many years.

Her life was a healthy one with no medical intervention until the past year and passed away after a short unexpected 10 day stay in hospital. She was always active, loved to walk and spent her last evening at home walking around the house, mopping floors and did the dishes.

Internment took place on January 5, 2021 at Beechwood Cemetery. A celebration of her life will take place at a graveside service in the spring.

I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.

The waves beside them danced; but they
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:
A poet could not but be gay,
In such a jocund company:
I gazed—and gazed—but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:

For oft, when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.

– William Wordsworth (1802)

Digital Guestbook

Theresa Bova

Patricia and Andrew,
We were deeply saddened to hear of your mother's recent illness and untimely death.
Your mother had a very youthful presence and no doubt touched many people with her kindness and open way of conversation. I am grateful I had the opportunity to know her and speak with her on the phone several times.
All this is a lot for you both to deal with right now. I hope if Gord and can be of help in any way, you will reach out.
Our condolences and thoughts are with you both.
By the way, daffodils were one of my mum's favourite flowers, reading the poem had special meaning to her (and me) as well. xo

Kam Chan

Dear Pat, We are so sorry to learn of your beloved mom’s passing. We send you and your family our deepest sympathies. May condolences from your friends and family help ease your grief and comfort you. I am so glad that I had the pleasure of meeting your mom and had so many fun little phone conversations with her when I called your house and she answered. I will always remember her big smile and joyful energy. And having known you for so many years now, I know for certain that her positivity, her love of life and her strength live on in you.

Kam Chan

Crystal MOhro

Patricia, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. This is a beautiful tribute to your mother, full of life and love. Please let me know if I can do anything.
Crystal

Mary MacDonald-LaPrade

Dear Patricia,
Although I never met your mother, you spoke of her so highly and with so much love, I feel I did get to know her a bit. I hope your many happy memories of her bring you peace and comfort.

Martine Devaux

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your mom. I know she will leave a huge void in your life. I always loved hearing stories about her indomitable spirit and incredible strength and can only hope that you will find comfort in all the great memories your hold dear. My thoughts are with you.

Christina Daly

Patricia, I just found out about the passing of your sweet mother. Over the years you have told me so many wonderful stories of her and the amazing mother she was to you and your brother. My heart is broken for you and I am thinking of you at this difficult time. Sending you virtual hugs, Christina xo

Deirdre McEwen

Our deepest sympathies Pat and Andy on the loss of your mother. We know you will miss her greatly. She had a long life and enjoyed many things and that is a good life. The poem by Wordsworth is beautiful and expresses so much of whom she was. Our thoughts are with you. Virtual hugs from Dee and Maggie

CAthy and Bob Barnes

Hi Pat and Andy. I really enjoyed seeing the wonderful photos of Aunt Marguerite that were posted. We are sorry for your loss. Dad always enjoyed his phone chats with Aunt Marguerite and continues to feel connected with family through you.

Christine Connor Stevens

My deepest sympathies Patricia and Andy, on the passing of your lovely mother. I meet you both and your parents years ago at Aunt Editha's and
Uncle Earl's home in Middleton. I am Paul's youngest daughter Chris. I remember your mothers dark hair and wonderful laugh. She was a beautiful soul. Please accept my condolences on behalf of my mother, Ann Connor, sisters, Lynn and Pat and my brother Paul. God bless you all!